让孩子做决定 Let The Kids Make Choice

There is no doubt that every parent wants to give the best to their children, so they nurse their children very carefully. They decide everything for them, because the parents think they are experienced and can make sure the kids won't go the wrong way. In my opinion, the parents should let the children make their own decision.

毫无疑问，每个家长都把最好的给予子女，因此他们很小心翼翼地养育着他们的孩子。他们为孩子做所有的决定，因为父母觉得自己经验丰富，可以确保孩子不会走错路。在我看来，父母应该让孩子自己做决定。

On the one hand, parents can't make all the decision for their kids. When the kids grow up, they need to be independent and think in their own way. The parents' intervention will hinder the children becoming mature. As an adult, he can't even make his own decision, how ridiculous.

一方面，父母无法替孩子拿定所有的主意。当孩子长大了，他们需要独立，自行思考。父母的干扰会阻碍孩子变得成熟。作为成年人，他甚至还无法做自己的决定，这是多么荒谬啊。

On the other hand, it is children's right to make mistakes. Most parents have made mistakes when they are young, so they don't want their kids go their ways. But sometimes making mistakes can help the children grow up and become the strong person, they will learn lessons from these mistakes.

另一方面，犯错误是孩子的权利。大部分父母在年轻的时候犯过错误，所以他们不想要让孩子走他们的路。但是有时候犯错误能帮助孩子成长，变成一个坚强的人，他们也能从这些错误中学到教训。

Parents should not do all the things for the children, as the saying that growing up needs to pay the price. Don't be afraid of making mistakes, it is necessary for the children.

父母不应该为孩子做完所有的事情，就像有句话说成长是需要代价的。不要害怕犯错误，对孩子来说，犯错误是必要的。